Thursday, February 28, 2019

0 comments
Thank You for Making The Total Marriage a Success during Love ❤️ Month. We appreciate all the likes, comments, emails, & we especially Thank those that have sowed seeds into the ministry & partnered with us to change Marriages & start a Total Marriage Revolution!



Please note you can still email us (“ASK THE BEASLEYS”) all your relationship & marriage questions, ideas, & suggestions. thetotalmarriage@tasharaluster.com



Also, some have wondered how to give to The Ministry. 

You can give through Cash App or PayPal. Thank You!

Cash App:

$TasharaLusterBeasley

 PayPal:


paypal.me/tasharaluster






Stayed Commected with Us through Social Media!




Wednesday, February 27, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

DREAMS, PURPOSE, & GOALS MARRIAGE ASSIGNMENT:



Ask your spouse, “What are your dreams?” Moreover, write them down!

Write-out a vision/mission statement for your marriage. 

Define the purpose/significance for your marriage & start living it out! 


*Find a way for the two of you & your family to be a blessing to another family this week!*

Tuesday, February 26, 2019

0 comments
Family Love & Quality-Time Assignment:



Have family night this week!


Eat at the dinner table, talk, play games, watch a movie, & get reconnected with your kids. 

Monday, February 25, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

This Week’s Love Assignments for Husbands & Wives!!!!





Love Assignment:


Commit to praying for your spouse this week. Send your spouse a spiritual/inspirational card, email, letter, or devotion this week.

Sunday, February 24, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 




Saturday, February 23, 2019

0 comments

THE TOTAL MARRIAGE MOVEMENT!

We want to share with you Our Inspirational Logos & Quotes about Our Ministry, The Total Marriage!

The Total Marriage Ministry seeks to start A Revolutionary Movement to help marriages to grow. Helping women to become Total Wives, & men to become Total Husbands!

We are Family & Life Teachers & We Are Your Marriage & Relationship Advocates!!

When it comes to All Marriages, “WE ARE STRONGER & BETTER TOGETHER IN GOD!”





Thursday, February 21, 2019

0 comments


Checkout Our Radio Interview Today about 
“Grace in Marriage Beyond The Romance!” 

WPGN NETWORK RADIO ATLANTA PRAZE-FEST! 

Show: AWWWE S.N.A.P.  With the Greatest DJ Teresa (“TK”) Kellam!

Host: Truth of The Day with Coach Tina McCrea! 

Tune In Today, Thursday, Feb. 21st @ 2pm (EST)!

https://tunein.com/radio/WPGN-Radio-Atlanta-(Prayzefest-Gospel-Network)-s148395/




Wednesday, February 20, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

SOCIAL MEDIA ETIQUETTE FOR COUPLES!

“What Should Be Posted...& What Should Not!”






By: Stacey Greene & Tashara Luster-Beasley

Tuesday, February 19, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

Singles,

“WHY SETTLE WHEN YOU CAN SELECT?”





Choose wisely who you date & especially who you will marry, be selective in your choosing!

Monday, February 18, 2019

0 comments





This Week’s Love Assignments for Husbands & Wives!!!!



Love Assignment: Wives this week don’t focus on the faults or shortcomings of your husbands. Encourage him even when he fails, & show him tangibly & with words of affirmation that you are loyal and supportive of him. Make your home a castle and safe haven for your husband. Ask him what you can do to make your home better and do it for him. Wives be rest assured that one of your husband’s greatest desires is to make you happy. Help him & yourself get to a place of peace & happiness!




Love Assignment: Husbands this week give your wife a day off from domestic (household) chores & duties. Give her a free day. Also, ask your wife what chore you can do to help around the house weekly. Make sure your wife knows you love her and that she is a priority in your life. This week set your schedule around the needs of your wife showing her that she matters most. Always be a man of your word & vows. Be romantic & give gifts & compliments this week. Do something you have never done before this week for your wife.

Sunday, February 17, 2019

0 comments








Husbands, honor, love, cherish, & be faithful to your wives! She is your Gift from God! Mistreating your wife hinders your prayers to God!




Wives, respect, honor, & be gentle & kind to your husbands! Put your trust in God & allow your husband to lead your household as he follows after God, support him always!

Saturday, February 16, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH!


To All My Single Sisters! Love yourself better & more & do not let a boy pretending to be a man mess over you with lies, no commitment, & ungodly intentions. He is showing you who he really is & you Need to move on! There is a godly man waiting to treat you like a Queen!



Friday, February 15, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 


The 10 Commandments of Dating



https://youtu.be/vr9f3x84rlA

In dating because this word and its subject is not spelled out in the Bible, yet God does give us various examples of how this should be done- Biblically people ONLY DATE TO SET A DATE-MEANING MARRY! 

Commandment #1: Do Not Date someone who is unsaved, or someone who does not share your spiritual and religious views.

Commandment #2: DO NOT DATE SOMEONE WHO YOU WOULD NOT CONSIDER MARRYING! 
Dating is a dress-rehearsal for marriage! People don’t change just because you get married, rather than change they get comfortable… If a person is a certain way when you are dating them, then marriage will only magnify who they really are. Things only change by the Power of God. Ask for Power and not change, because the power is great enough to make an everlasting change!

Commandment #3: Do not date someone who does not love you, or appreciate you, or who cheats on you.

Commandment #4: Do not date someone you cannot trust.

Commandment #5: Do not date someone who you can’t be real, open, honest, and vulnerable with.

Commandment #6: Do not date someone who devalues you or disrespects you in any way.

Commandment #7: Do not date someone who you cannot follow or lead.

Commandment #8: Do not date someone who is jealous of you or tries to compete with you.

Commandment #9: Do not date someone who has a totally different vision than what you know God has given you for your life.

Commandment #10: Do not date someone who totally hates your family and is unwilling to make some level of comprise to have a cordial relationship with them.

*Get a spiritual mentor to pray with you and ask God for confirmation about the person you are dating!*

The Beasleys Are Your Marriage & Relationship Advocates & We Offer Relationship Coaching, Mentoring, Pre-marital & Marriage Counseling.


Please visit our coaching and consulting business at www.totallifecoaching-consulting.com

Thursday, February 14, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

All month long we will be sharing some great tips & advice on love, relationships, dating, marriage, intimacy, & so much more! 

“We Are Your Marriage & Relationship Advocates!”

Making Every Day Valentine’s Day!



https://youtu.be/4fhEAzsWeOY



Wednesday, February 13, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

All month long we will be sharing some great tips & advice on love, relationships, dating, marriage, intimacy, & so much more! 

“We Are Your Marriage & Relationship Advocates!

Unwise Reasons to Get Married!



https://youtu.be/kUrUhI4mdcM

Tuesday, February 12, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

All month long we will be sharing some great tips & advice on love, relationships, dating, marriage, intimacy, & so much more! 

“We Are Your Marriage & Relationship Advocates!

7 Phrases that are a Must in order to have a Total Marriage!

These are the seven phrases that we believe are paramount to having a successful and passionate marriage.




Monday, February 11, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

Healing over a Break-up, Heartache,or a Broken Engagement!

If you are struggling with healing over a break-up, or a past relationship, or just letting go of someone who is not right for you, then this video teaching will bring the help & hope that you need!



https://youtu.be/XfcAZq1hDxA

Sunday, February 10, 2019

0 comments

HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH!

Husbands & Wives give your All to your spouse. Today, give love, be affectionate, be peaceful, be a place of joy, happiness, & contentment in your home! Let your spouse know how much they mean to you through your loving actions!



HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH!


Singles, Stop Dating Your Past. When you let go of your past it will let go of you. Stop dating “Mr. & Mrs. Wrong” & love yourself better & be with someone who wants to be with you & make a future with you! “Don’t Settle When You Can Select!”

Saturday, February 9, 2019

0 comments


HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

If you are struggling today with loneliness in your singleness, in your relationship, or even in your marriage, there is Hope! 

Loneliness is never really about a person or about people, but rather it’s about you really Pursuing your Purpose. The “loneliness” you feel is coming from a place deep inside of you that desires more from God, Purpose, & Life, not from a person or from people.

Another human being can’t cure your loneliness, only being who you are
Called to be in God can deliver you from the “feelings of loneliness.”

When you love yourself & when you are happy, fulfilled, & satisfied within yourself, then there can be a compliment of love in a relationship because you both are whole. 

A relationship not even a Marriage relationship will Not Complete you, because it is not supposed to... God didn’t design love & marriage for that, but you can be complete in God!

You can still “feel lonely” even in a crowd of people that’s because loneliness is not about people, but about Purpose! Stop relying on people to validate you & dictate how you feel about yourself & about your life. Never give anyone that level of power & control over you!


Get focused on Purpose & watch loneliness dissipate from your life.

Friday, February 8, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

All month long we will be sharing some great tips & advice on love, relationships, dating, marriage, intimacy, & so much more! 

“We Are Your Marriage & Relationship Advocates!”

MARRIAGE MYTHS!

Are you believing things about Marriage that simply aren’t true?

Find out the real deal about Marriage & Realistic Expectations & start having the marriage relationship that you have dreamed of & desired!



Marriage Myths:

1.     Marriage is an endless supply of sex.

2.     Marriage is 50/50.

3.     Marriage is tit-for-tat… it is ok to keep score in marriage.

4.     Marriage was created to make/keep me happy.

5.     Don’t go to bed angry… every issue has to be resolved that night.

6.     We should stay married because of the kids.

7.     All you need is love to make a marriage work.

8.     My spouse needs to change, if they changed then our marriage would be great.

9.     Sex & Money are the #1 reasons why people get divorced… no the reasons are unrealistic expectations & unmet needs/expectations and lack of communication.

10.  Cheating or adultery is ok in marriage, it will help my marriage.

11.  My spouse should just know what I want & need.

12.  My wife will look like she looked on our wedding day every day of our marriage.

13.  If I get a divorce, my 2nd marriage will be better… no 2nd marriages are 65% more likely to end in divorce.

14.  It is ok to tell my marital business to my friends.

15.  Conflict means we don’t love each other & our marriage is bad.

16.  Marriage should not be difficult or hard work.

17.  Just because it is important to me, it should be important to my spouse.

18.  If I nag him enough he will do what I want him to do.

19.  Marriage can’t survive infidelity.

20.  My spouse just has to deal with my bad habits… they knew this about me when they married me.

21.  You should always feel loving toward your spouse.


22.  Love should consistently feel the same way.



Thursday, February 7, 2019

0 comments
HAPPY LOVE ❤️MONTH! 

All month long we will be sharing some great tips & advice on love, relationships, dating, marriage, intimacy, & so much more! 

“We Are Your Marriage & Relationship Advocates!”

RELATIONSHIP MYTHS!

Are you believing things about relationships that simply aren’t true?
Find out the real deal about relationships & start getting & having the love you deserve!




Relationship Myths

1.      90 Day Rule… “All the Way to The Altar Rule”

2.      Cohabitation/Shacking is better… 75% of these couples end in divorce

3.      Premarital Counseling is a waste of time and money

4.      I will be happy once I get married

5.      I should get married because I got pregnant

6.      I am lonely so I should get married

7.      He/she will change when we get married

8.      Sex is greater in dating than in marriage

9.      I know they are the one because I just feel it

10.  Marriage is for everyone

11.   I am over 35, I am never going to get married so I might as well settle for Mr./Mrs. Right Now

12.  The man holds all the power to where the relationship is going

13.  It is impossible to stay married to the same person for the rest of your life

14.  Keeping secrets or not revealing who I really am will help me get married sooner

15.  It doesn’t matter that I don’t get along with my girlfriend/boyfriend’s family

16.  His or Her jealousy lets me know how much they love me

17.  I should be my girl/boyfriend’s only friend and they should spend all their time with me

18.  I should be the only woman that he finds attractive

19.  It’s ok for the woman to pursue and propose to the man

20.  The passion & love we have while dating will never fade, but intensify in marriage

21.  I only feel fulfilled as long as I am in a relationship

22.  All men are dogs… there are no good men left